How To Defend Pro-Choice Beliefs
This was taken from WikiHow.
1.) Explain that even if abortion was illegal, it would be impossible to enforce such laws. The procedure used in performing abortions is similar to
the same procedure used to investigate bad pap smears. This is how abortions were covered up in the past.
2.) Explain that abortion laws, such as the Roe vs. Wade one, were not about the moral implications of abortion but about safety.
3.) Try and find a middle ground with the other person. If they say abortion is wrong in all cases, try and find a case in which they agree it would not
be wrong. Cases of rape, incest, and cases in which a birth of the child would kill the mother are often good middle grounds.
4.) Try and stretch the middle ground. If they agree that cases of, say, rape, would be fine for an abortion, ask if it would be okay if the woman
received an abortion if the fetus was not going to live after birth, and she knew. Generally, just try and find more ways in which they agree abortion
should be allowed.
5.) Continue to push different cases. The person with whom you are debating should realize, after they’ve agreed to a few scenarios in which abortion
would be allowed, that maybe abortion isn’t as horrible – after all, it deals with legal, emotional, and physically traumatizing events. If they don’t
realize this, mention it, but only after they’ve agreed on a few cases in which abortion should be allowed. If they think war can justify murder of
adults as the lesser of two evils then why not abortion?
6.) Mention the mother’s well-being. Ask if they believe the birth of an unwanted child to a young, promising woman would hinder her life. They will
agree that it will; it is obvious. They might mention, at this point, that if the woman didn’t want to have a child, she shouldn’t have had sex. Mention
cases of rape, leave it at that.
7.) Ask about cases in which the mother could be seriously harmed by the birth of the child, or even killed. This is also something good to mention when
you are trying to find a middle ground with whomever you are discussing abortion with – even the most die-hard Pro Life supporter normally will agree
that abortion should be allowed in cases in which the mother will be killed by giving birth.
8.) Emphasize the magnitude of damage to children of being born to unwanting parents.
9.) If they mention giving up the child for adoption, simply counter with the fact that orphanariums worldwide are overflowing with too many children,
and it would very possibly be even more damaging to the child to be left in an orphanarium for eighteen years, which happens to a very large portion of
children given up for adoption.
10.) Dropping a mention of the homeless rate is also a good idea for defending abortion. There are too many people in the world to force parents to have
children when they are nowhere near ready, or when there is only a mother.
11.) Ask them to consider the following question: if we cannot decide at what point life actually begins, can we decide at what point life ends? If they
cannot answer, talk about brain death, and how doctors pronounce a patient dead when the brain stops sending pulse signals to the body. Ask them if they
know when the brain actually begins to send signals. The answer is eight weeks into pregnancy. Use this argument to show that since life ends when the
brain stops, shouldn’t life begin when the brain starts?
12.) If they insist that life begins at fertilization, point out that up to two weeks after fertilization, that clump of cells could split up into
identical twins. Where did the second life come from?
13.) If they insist that life begins at fertilisation, ask what they think about cloning? Assuming that human cloning takes place – probably a matter of
time – no fertilization takes place at all, the new person has the exact same genetic information as the “donor”, yet they are clearly distinct
14.) Remind the person that pro-choice people are not “pro-abortion” – they understand the gravity of the decision and none of them think abortion is all
sunshine and puppies. But they also realize that legal or not, there have always been unwanted pregnancies and a demand for abortion, and when abortion
is not legal it does not stop happening, it just becomes a lot more dangerous and even deadly. Being pro-choice means wanting to keep abortion safe,
legal and rare.
15.) Ask them to consider societies where abortion was illegal such as Communist Romania and watch the film ‘4 Months, 3 Weeks and 2 Days’. The same rate
of women attempted to have an abortion, but maternal mortality rates and child abandonment rates soared.
16.) Make sure your arguments can be supported by logic and/or scientific evidence. Be polite. Just because you disagree with the other person’s opinion
on abortion, don’t interrupt and shout at them. Calmly explain your point, and allow them to do the same.
17.) If you mention religion too much, be prepared as this may turn in to a never-ending argument. Understand that this is a very touchy issue for most
people, and that it can break friendships, and cause grudges. Stay away from “hot button” issues such as abortion if you feel it may cause a fight or
create a rift between two people. Don’t expect to change anyone’s mind in five minutes. If you feel very strongly about this, then they probably feel just
as strongly about their own opinions. Allow them time to think about it, and never push too hard. Pushing will only cause the other person to feel
antagonized, and you will get nowhere. Pro-lifers use extremely graphic images usually of late term abortions which are a tiny proportion of all abortions.